When we consider the evolution of romantic relationships, sexual attraction gets a lot of attention, as it should. But, in my opinion, companionship ends up playing the crucial role.
The opportunity and willingness to spend time together, share experiences, express personal goals, voice our fears and learn from one another are what sustain relationships. Companionship fuels cooperation, compromise, mutual respect and a lasting commitment.
Of course, this all takes time and, too often, relationships fail as the initial passion fades. If companionship is not highly valued, an enduring romance is never in the cards.