Monday, March 11, 2024

The Curse of Envy

We humans are prone to envy.  Celebrity, wealth, talent and perceived happiness are among the traits that trigger this unfortunate reaction.  But what is really true?  What do we actually know about these individuals?

Unless they are close friends or immediate family members, it is likely that we know very little.  Too often, we envy others, only to find out about their personal trials and tribulations in an expose or obituary.  Even then, can we truly appreciate how difficult or unhappy their life might had been?

One thing is certain: envy itself invokes unhappiness.  Comparing ourselves to others, however limited our knowledge, is both futile and unhealthy.  Our time and energy are better spent improving our own life, especially our relationships.