As teens and young adults, we recognize certain traits in our parents that were largely ignored during childhood. In response, we vow to adopt those we admire and eschew those we despise but, in the end, are not always successful (a fact often pointed out by our spouse, our siblings or the other parent).
Indeed, we are a genetic composite of both parents and may not have the constitution to assume certain positive traits. And when it comes to disavowing traits that we despise, we may overreact to the point of zealotry.
Genetic expression is a powerful force. Our goal, it seems to me, is to acknowledge the traits that we have inherited and work to modify their expression when indicated; education and social enlightenment are the primary tools that facilitate the process.
Indeed, we are a genetic composite of both parents and may not have the constitution to assume certain positive traits. And when it comes to disavowing traits that we despise, we may overreact to the point of zealotry.
Genetic expression is a powerful force. Our goal, it seems to me, is to acknowledge the traits that we have inherited and work to modify their expression when indicated; education and social enlightenment are the primary tools that facilitate the process.
