During our lives, most of us undertake journeys (relationships, careers, personal adventures) that we realize may not unfold as planned. Nevertheless, we set off, understanding that such experiences are the spice of life.
This past week, my wife and I traveled to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan for the second year in a row, hoping to finally observe the Aurora borealis. Unfortunately, the weather did not cooperate and the central goal of our journey was not met. Yet, we enjoyed a pleasant trip, visited towns and natural areas new to us and met fellow travelers and residents who we will surely remember for the rest of our days.
Those who shun life's journeys, fearing rejection or disappointment, miss out on more than the goal itself. Indeed, the varied benefits, while not often evident at the outset, may outshine our initial expectations. If nothing else, we learn from the experience and are more likely to achieve "success" the next time around.