As we humans mature, we recognize the traits and familial behaviors that we acquired during childhood. We also recall, and may retain, the convictions of our parents.
While some never abandon those ingrained beliefs, most of us sort through them over time, assessing their truth in light of our own education and life experience. Indeed, this is essential as we develop our personal identity; after all, our individual philosophy will govern our choices in life and they, in turn, will determine how it unfolds.
This process of breaking away does not diminish the value of parental nurturing and guidance but our personal happiness requires that we be true to ourself. Taking responsibility for our own actions, beliefs, failures and achievements ensures that life will be rewarding.