Unlike most fatal illnesses, dementia robs the individual of their humanity. Unable to care for themselves or communicate with family and friends, they become victims of both the disease and those who refuse to let them die. No one wants that fate.
Yet, usually due to religious convictions and/or misguided laws, family members are unwilling or unable to withhold medical care or consider compassionate euthanasia. Despite the emotional and financial consequences, they tend to the needs of their loved one, reluctant to "play God."
As a consequence, empathy for the victim of dementia must come from human society. We must provide the means and support the rights of family members to actively end the de-humanization that characterizes this tragic and, to date, untreatable disease. While that decision should never be imposed on a family, our collective empathy requires that we make the option available.